Regarding West…
Ok not that I don’t 1000000% with everything the girls were saying and that he isn’t a F boy because let’s face it…. he is…. as much as we love him, he’s got a little F boy in him.. BUT, I was at one of the watch parties in KC and the part where the girls were saying “our fan base respects the relationships” is a total lie. Girls were throwwwwwing themselves at him. And this was when we had zero clue on the status of them. So much that a friend of his had to pull him aside to take a breather. I happened to be mutual friends with that person so got to stand and chat with him and it wasnt 2 minutes and he was swarmed again. A girl handed him a coaster with her number on it and I just looked at him and was like “is this weird for you” and he just looked so overwhelmed.
Not sticking up for the guy because I wanna punch him in the dick (and hard), but to get that popular over night and not know what to do and how to react would be a lot. If he didn’t give them attention and was a total dick your DMs would’ve been flooded with how big of an ass he was. Not a place I would ever want to be in honestly.
Here’s my thing. The women of Summer House need to STOP putting ideas in the men’s heads and then acting surprised when the man finally says you know what yea that’s probably a good idea.
Ciara said she told him if he wanted to do his own thing bc the show is starting and it was might get intense bc he was new then go for. He was in love with her so he said no no it’s you. BUT NOW HE’S THINKING ABOUT IT!! You CANNOT “test” a man. It doesn’t work that way.
Lindsay did the same thing with Carl almost every time they fought. “Why do you even want to marry to me?” If I were him I would be screaming “I don’t fucking know” and he finally did. Like come on ladies!
Of course when it ends you are going to be sad and cry BUT all that means is this wasn’t “the one.” It’s not the end of the world.
This makes total sense
No. West showed his hand in the group chat when he was gloating over it being the best season ever, ignoring it was people’s real lives falling apart. He used Ciara for a storyline but didn’t let her in on that.
It’s actually not that hard to just politely turn down a woman’s advances. People go on reality tv for the first time already in relationships and are able to manage it. If he wanted to he would is all I’m saying. 🤷♀️
I feel like deep down he’s not a dick but really not emotionally mature enough to have handled it all (I mean honestly what guy that age or some any age are). I do like that he seems overall more in touch with his emotions and not the fake/actor tear shit as Kyle/the Toms etc. But I think what he does going forward could go either way – the easy way being just screw anyone that comes into the dms. To play devils advocate also I feel like Ciara should’ve told him flat out she didn’t want him seeing other people. We all suck at proper communication and we’ve all been there to some extent (girls thinking assuming things are exclusive because they’re not out running around but the guys assuming since there hadn’t been a talk they’re good to go 🤷🏼♀️). I’ve learned the hard way many times haha so I kept wanting her to sit him down and tell him her clear expectations. Would’ve helped if Carl had done that too. No more beating around the bush.
I lol’d when they made the comment of fans respecting the relationship lol. Like what kind of delusion is that??
I agree!!! He isn’t ready to settle down and said so! She wants a husband and he just became famous on bravo-he’s here for the ladies for now. They aren’t at the same stage in life-what’s wrong with that? People break up all the time! And they even said they weren’t exclusive. I think Ciara is just embarrassed that it didn’t end up working out 🤷🏼♀️
I think that’s an excuse.
Dorinda’s voice “CLIP!”
Does the observer not think Ciara has many options in her DMs or out in public? The difference is Ciara has higher standards for herself! I see the bar is Low for West.
Yeah ok I was also at an event where women were throwing themselves at him but he definitely NEVER gave “not interested” energy. People were also cheering where him and Ciara would come on tv. The support from fans came both ways and he chose which one to care about.
Ciara should have been clear with him on what she wanted period. I’m a guy we like to hear clarity we don’t work well without clear boundaries. She may have had specific boundaries regarding him but he clearly thought they were just having fun. This is literally miscommunication. To honestly write this man off early would be crazy he’s young, still learning, and very entertaining in my opinion. NO ONE SHOULD ENTERTAIN ANYTHING MORE THAN FUN IN SUMMER HOUSE.