Not a cheater …Nashville!

May 12, 2022

From: Jana Lamer

Subject: Not a cheater

Spill It to Jana and her friends made it seem like lan cheated but he didn’t. She went through his phone and snapped pics of him bitching to his friend about her. Saying every day he had to tell her it was only her and that things had to be only her way. He discovered she went through his phone and ended it. The messages aren’t bad really. It’s him complaining and saying there’s issues and he can’t do it long term. He reminisces about a past girlfriend but that’s about as bad as it gets.

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  1. Mel

    That’s pretty bad IMO. If I found those
    Messages I would be livid. He should be talking to her about their issues. Reminiscing about an ex is not ok when you are in a relationship. He didn’t cheat but he’s not perfectly innocent either. She should not have gone through his phone in the first place though.

  2. Anon

    No Jana fan but if he knew he wasn’t in it for the long haul, what’s the point…especially when there are kids in the picture

  3. Everybody wins

    Sounds like a good deal they broke it off. He’s not happy. She’s breaking into his phone. Win win I’d say!!

  4. Kate

    So are people not aloud to vent to a friend? Maybe he wouldn’t reminisce about his old gf if Jana wasn’t so insecure. She’s never going to have a functioning relationship if she can’t get over her issues with her ex husband. You can’t put someone thru that daily not trusting them looking thru their phone and think they will be happily in love.

  5. JamiePNW

    I saw all the screenshots. What he sent in those texts was grounds for a break up. I’m not a fan of hers but I’m glad she got out. Those texts prove he was using her and was not in love with her like he claimed to be. He’s scum and even she deserves better.

  6. Mama Jama

    I saw those texts too. They weren’t bad at all! I have vented to my girlfriends when fighting with my SO and it sounds horrible. Then I get over it and move on. Everyone does it!
    I’d be pissed if I saw it but I’d work through it. However he ended it because no matter what he said she couldn’t get over her insecurity and she invaded his privacy.

  7. Ew dude

    She’s insufferable but he sounds like a whiny baby.

  8. He is a cheater!

    I know for sure he did not know she took those screenshots and that’s not the reason for their break up. Though she shouldn’t have, i’m glad she did. He knew he wasn’t in it for the long haul, but continued to date her. Their poor kids. Look on Reddit for Danikas friends comment. He was with Danika the first month he was with Jana and neither of them knew it. He cheated on his ex wife and other girls he’s been with. He was also just tagged in a friends story looking a little too comfortable with another girl…for just breaking up after a 7 month relationship. I was an Ian fan, but not now. He is scum and didn’t deserve her or any girl for that matter. He had us all fooled. Unfollow him!


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