“It’s unfortunate to live in a society that systemically enables capable, absentee 1 %ers while overtly stigmatizing single mothers who are putting in the sweat equity of raising great kids. This subject is foundational to many societal problems, and it needs to change. Carter is dealing with varying degrees of accountability associated with being Evie’s father. It’s antithetical to Evie’s well-being and wishes to state the apparent negatives about his absenteeism. Carter and I were friends and dated briefly. We had already moved on romantically when I discovered I was expecting Evie. While it is clearly in Evie’s best interests for Carter to walk by my side as a friend in parenting her, he ultimately made his choice, and I made mine. Carter, his new wife, and the Milliken Reum family will continue to have an open invitation should any of them decide to participate in Evie’s life. The more people proactively love Evie, the better. Nothing compensates for the lack of both parents. This applies to all children-It takes a village to raise great kids. As for Evie? She is a gift. She has my total dedication and ongoing support from her highly accomplished adult sisters, her uncles, her godparents, and a community of friends, neighbors, coaches and educators who empower her via their positive influence and active involvement in her life.” CBS News and 7 others ♡ Q V Liked by horsepower_98katie and others socalsorority My Official Statement (unedited), Evie’s Letter to her father, and now moving forward… Thank you @pagesix @hernandezmjae @billybush @extraty For amplifying Evie’s voice and conveying her wishes… you are officially part of her village. U #Empowering Evie View all 20 comments
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Mimi
on 11/17/2021 at 2:31 pm
Wow. This mother is really trying for mother of the year. She made her daughter write him a note that she shared with the media. That’s pathetic.
If you think the mother had to force her daughter you’re wrong. I’m 35 and still wish my dad was in my life although he never has been. I used to show up to court hearings just for a chance to see him.
Agree. This is a private matter. Awful for the kid but now everyone knows who she is and it makes her more susceptible to being taken advantage of. I feel for this family and hope the child truly gets what she wants from this.
I’m sorry this is so wrong. You guys weren’t really a thing and then you expect him to be a dad?? You never thought about that child or you would have terminated or given up for adoption. You made your choice to raise alone, teach her that she doesnt need a man in her life n leave that poor guy alone.
A response from someone who knows several men that were trapped into having children they very clearly said they didnt want. Im fed up with selfish Bitches doing what they want without thinking how uts goin
WTH?! If you were railing on baby Mama for expecting a fling to be a good partner bc she got pregnant, I’d be with you. But that’s not what’s happening here. It’s a 9 year old child that has an expectation that her father would want to know her. It’s really gross to suggest the child should have been aborted rather than want to know her parents.
That’s not at all what I was saying. I was trashing the mom for exploiting her daughter and dragging a man you never wanted to be a father to that child. Do you know how many women trap men into having kids? We don’t know the situation n men should get a choice too.
Her mom should have also squashed that expectation knowing he didn’t want the relationship. Instead it looks like she fed into it further messing up the child.
Oh can’t force someone to be a father if they don’t want to be. If you thought someday he would change is personality and decide to be dad of the year, that’s you’re own fault for thinking that but stop putting false hope in this child’s mind and trying to get attention on social media and in Hollywood. Raise your girl up to see she doesn’t need some deadbeat dad and that SHE is enough.
As a woman who also got pregnant with a friends child, and now raises her alone because he chose to run away from responsibility… shame on everyone for these comments. Being a single mom who doesn’t have an answer when their child asks about why they don’t have a daddy or why their dad didn’t call on their birthday is one of the hardest things to go through. Do I agree with her sharing the child’s letter with the world? No. But I can understand why she did. Imagine being a child, seeing your dad in the press living this amazing life with Paris Hilton, and wondering why he doesn’t love you like that. She is trying to hold him accountable. He is a grown man and should be held responsible for his actions. This man is trash (and although I love Paris and am SO happy she found love) he will always be trash until he steps up and makes an effort to be a part of his daughters life. Just my opinion
Do I think she should be sharing that with the world? No but some of these comments are disgusting. He’s a dead beat dad. Why are people giving him grace? PERIOD
Just saying the timing is odd. The girl is 9? I find it hard to believe the daughter all of a sudden is wanting this relationship out of nowhere. I’m sure she did not know or care who paris Hilton was before this. Seems more likely the mom is filling the daughters head with things. It is really messed up that carter decided to not be in her life or help with raising her but I mean 9 years later going on Instagram tagging page six after his very public wedding and using her daughters personal note (that sounds like her mom told her what to write) just all seems very wrong. Should have all been handled privately if this was genuine.
“It’s unfortunate to live in a society that systemically enables capable, absentee 1 %ers while overtly stigmatizing single mothers who are putting in the sweat equity of raising great kids. This subject is foundational to many societal problems, and it needs to change. Carter is dealing with varying degrees of accountability associated with being Evie’s father. It’s antithetical to Evie’s well-being and wishes to state the apparent negatives about his absenteeism. Carter and I were friends and dated briefly. We had already moved on romantically when I discovered I was expecting Evie. While it is clearly in Evie’s best interests for Carter to walk by my side as a friend in parenting her, he ultimately made his choice, and I made mine. Carter, his new wife, and the Milliken Reum family will continue to have an open invitation should any of them decide to participate in Evie’s life. The more people proactively love Evie, the better. Nothing compensates for the lack of both parents. This applies to all children-It takes a village to raise great kids. As for Evie? She is a gift. She has my total dedication and ongoing support from her highly accomplished adult sisters, her uncles, her godparents, and a community of friends, neighbors, coaches and educators who empower her via their positive influence and active involvement in her life.” CBS News and 7 others ♡ Q V Liked by horsepower_98katie and others socalsorority My Official Statement (unedited), Evie’s Letter to her father, and now moving forward… Thank you @pagesix @hernandezmjae @billybush @extraty For amplifying Evie’s voice and conveying her wishes… you are officially part of her village. U #Empowering Evie View all 20 comments
Wow. This mother is really trying for mother of the year. She made her daughter write him a note that she shared with the media. That’s pathetic.
I’m definitely with you on this. She seems quite thirsty.
If you think the mother had to force her daughter you’re wrong. I’m 35 and still wish my dad was in my life although he never has been. I used to show up to court hearings just for a chance to see him.
Agree. This is a private matter. Awful for the kid but now everyone knows who she is and it makes her more susceptible to being taken advantage of. I feel for this family and hope the child truly gets what she wants from this.
I’m sorry this is so wrong. You guys weren’t really a thing and then you expect him to be a dad?? You never thought about that child or you would have terminated or given up for adoption. You made your choice to raise alone, teach her that she doesnt need a man in her life n leave that poor guy alone.
Congratulations. Worst response so far.
Wtf kind of response is this
A response from someone who knows several men that were trapped into having children they very clearly said they didnt want. Im fed up with selfish Bitches doing what they want without thinking how uts goin
Its going to affect their baby jn the future
WTH?! If you were railing on baby Mama for expecting a fling to be a good partner bc she got pregnant, I’d be with you. But that’s not what’s happening here.
It’s a 9 year old child that has an expectation that her father would want to know her. It’s really gross to suggest the child should have been aborted rather than want to know her parents.
That’s not at all what I was saying. I was trashing the mom for exploiting her daughter and dragging a man you never wanted to be a father to that child. Do you know how many women trap men into having kids? We don’t know the situation n men should get a choice too.
Her mom should have also squashed that expectation knowing he didn’t want the relationship. Instead it looks like she fed into it further messing up the child.
Poor guy?? He abandoned his child!
Oh can’t force someone to be a father if they don’t want to be. If you thought someday he would change is personality and decide to be dad of the year, that’s you’re own fault for thinking that but stop putting false hope in this child’s mind and trying to get attention on social media and in Hollywood. Raise your girl up to see she doesn’t need some deadbeat dad and that SHE is enough.
As a woman who also got pregnant with a friends child, and now raises her alone because he chose to run away from responsibility… shame on everyone for these comments. Being a single mom who doesn’t have an answer when their child asks about why they don’t have a daddy or why their dad didn’t call on their birthday is one of the hardest things to go through. Do I agree with her sharing the child’s letter with the world? No. But I can understand why she did. Imagine being a child, seeing your dad in the press living this amazing life with Paris Hilton, and wondering why he doesn’t love you like that. She is trying to hold him accountable. He is a grown man and should be held responsible for his actions. This man is trash (and although I love Paris and am SO happy she found love) he will always be trash until he steps up and makes an effort to be a part of his daughters life. Just my opinion
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Do I think she should be sharing that with the world? No but some of these comments are disgusting. He’s a dead beat dad. Why are people giving him grace? PERIOD
Just saying the timing is odd. The girl is 9? I find it hard to believe the daughter all of a sudden is wanting this relationship out of nowhere. I’m sure she did not know or care who paris Hilton was before this. Seems more likely the mom is filling the daughters head with things. It is really messed up that carter decided to not be in her life or help with raising her but I mean 9 years later going on Instagram tagging page six after his very public wedding and using her daughters personal note (that sounds like her mom told her what to write) just all seems very wrong. Should have all been handled privately if this was genuine.
No one else thinks it’s sus this all comes out the week of his wedding? ???