I sat next to a production assistant years ago on a flight to LA and he told me that before they would film with her they would have to go in a clean up all the car from her house. It was everywhere..this is when he kids were young too. Also he told me Bethany and Jason hated each other which was funny to me because there show was still being aired and they seemed happy as can be.
 
The second part I think we all saw them pretty unhappy towards the end of their show….allegedly.
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