The men of “The Real Housewives of Orange County” are usually just background noise — but Katie Ginella’s husband Matt Ginella is not holding back when it comes to Gretchen Rossi’s fiancé, Slade Smiley. And yes, the shade is messy enough to deserve its own orange.
Matt Ginella Shades Slade’s Role On RHOC
Matt recently popped up on the “Don’t Let It Stu” podcast to address the ongoing feud with Slade, who allegedly called him to get Katie to walk back comments she made about Gretchen and Tamra Judge. According to Matt, the call was bizarre — and it only fueled more drama.
“I don’t think people are totally understanding or even putting value on Slade’s role in all of this,” Matt said. “I have been with Slade, I don’t know, let’s say it’s three times. All three times, I have heard the story about how he started Housewives, behind the gates, original cast, very involved in production.”
He added that Andy Cohen himself supposedly had to remind Slade that he is “not a Housewife.” Matt also threw in a dig at Slade’s romantic track record: “In his mind, he is on his, I think, his fourth Housewife in terms of relationships … [That’s] not happening for me.”
Katie Ginella’s Husband Calls Out Slade’s Past
The sharpest jab came when Matt brought up Slade’s legal history. “The idea that I’m in some sort of character war with a guy who was arrested for being a deadbeat dad … I didn’t have this on my bingo card, but here we are,” he said.
Back in 2009, Slade was arrested on an outstanding warrant for falling behind on child support payments. He later said enormous medical bills for his late son Grayson, who sadly passed away in 2023 at the age of 22, were the reason for his struggles.
And just to keep the drama sizzling, Matt also shared a chilling “911 text” Slade allegedly sent him, warning: “Katie might have just sealed her own fate … You need to call Katie and have her hold the line and say it wasn’t said.”
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Wait who’s the 4th housewife? Jo, Laurie, Gretchen, and… ?
At this point both husbands are annoying.
Pot meet kettle, my hell, this guy needs to go away.
Also, he may not want to talk about parenting disputes since Katie has her own fair share of questionable judgments when it comes to custody.
Honestly, they are both way too involved. Matt’s knowledge of the housewife lore is surprising and I used to like him…