A cocktailer sent this and I think it’s a good discussion . Thoughts in comments…
I am watching Married to Medicine’s newest episode and the hot mic convo between sweet tea and Gregory at their home. Greg talks down to her. Tells her she’s naive and disregards her combat training. She tries to end it by saying she’s entitled to her opinion and he says she can’t take the truth and disregards her opinion on the situation. He storms off and then behind closed doors he says it’s your fault don’t say things to make me go off. She says he shouldn’t have called her naive he says he’s the leader and he doesn’t know who she thinks she’s talking to!!!
I’m curious on other cocktailers thoughts on that scene and also Quad’s claims of how he treated her in their marriage. I was disgusted with what he was saying and I feel for sweet tea for the first time since she’s been on the show. He’s made small comments in the past but this was absolutely horrible. That man needs off TV. Him being a psych doctor makes this absolutely worse.
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I had the same thoughts . And now we see how Quad was treated .
Thought the same thing DV stuff for sure and he is unhinged …
Was so disgusted at this scene too. I made me really believe Quad that he was abousive. The way he kept saying it is your fault was giving off anusive vibes
It was so sad. And she tried to protect him in that by telling him to lower his voice. But napoleon just saw that as trying to tell him what to do and put her down more. He is a complete d***.
He’s always been horrible
Just another example of why we should believe women. Stupid Dr. Greg in that dumbass comic sans white doctors coat. He is really the worst.
Horrific. Actually floored by how intentionally abusive he is, the things he’s saying are crippling and he knows it. The fact that he didn’t even care that he’s probably still mic’d… yikes. I’m done with this tiny little man. And take Heavenly with you.
He did the same thing when he was married to Quad. It’s the episode where he speeds off in the mini cooper. Quad has talked about his behavior and the way he speaks to her several times in the past. He also admitted to being physically violent with Quad at a reunion. Looks like his behavior is a pattern and not specifically related to his relationship with Quad
I always believed Quad when she spoke about her marriage and how he treated her. There were comments that he made that made me feel he was worse behind closed doors. It now makes more sense why Quad always wants apologies from the ladies… she tried to tell and all they did was put her down or make it seem like she was lying.. just because Gregory is a doctor doesn’t make him a great person to be in a relationship.
His behavior appears very abusive. And I have no doubt he treated Quad the same way. I will say he is a psychiatrist so most his education is in the management of psychiatric medication. He likely does very little therapy. So hopefully is not doing intensive therapy with people. Psychologists and master levels counselors are highly trained in therapy but do not prescribe medication.
I thought it was disgusting the way he spoke to her. He’s emotionally (& probably financially) abusive. Drunk w power over being the “leader” of the marriage. Sweet T needs to RUN
I felt like I was watching a scene from the earlier seasons of the show and how he used to talk to Quad. Ever since Quad stared at the S6 reunion how there was physical abuse in the marriage, I have hated that man.
Tea needs to get out. It’s not gonna get any better. This is exactly how it started with Quad. He was horrible to her.
I thought it was disgusting too. Showed Quad was right. Who talks like that to someone and then says it’s your fault. Bye Gregory, you suck
Married to medicine might be the best show on bravo! Why is no one talking about it?!?!?
Not sure if TV is the only thing he needs to be off of… I don’t watch MTM but I’ll tell you this… I’ve put up with a lot of dumb shit from men (including my husband of nearly 30 yrs) but the minute one of them talk to me like this it’s GOODBYE or we’re having a pretty come-to-Jesus meeting coz no one is disrespecting me like that – EVER! And to boot, that kind of language is mentally abusive & I’m not willing for it to ever become something more.
He is awful! Suddenly everyone believes Quad now when she had been telling anyone who would listen how toxic and abusive he was.
Also- if you listen at the very end of the scene with the doors closed, it sounds like a slap.
I have thought about this too. He is clearly emotionally abusive and this tracks with Quads comments about their relationship. I was in an abusive relationship and it starts with emotional abuse. It makes me so sad for sweet tea. The way he spoke to her was so triggering and offensive and by her response you can tell this is far from the first time.
Napoleon syndrome and a narcissist.
I thought the same thing. It was gross and disheartening to hear. I feel bad for sweet tea.
T made a patriarchal bargain…thought she was getting a secure life. But she sold herself short. She is a combat trained, intelligent young woman. She doesn’t deserve his nasty, demeaning treatment but is surely deep in the foxhole with him—esp given her fertility journey. Let’s hope this M2M“couples-focused” group of friends supports & uplifts this young woman rather than continuing to ignore G’s inexcusable actions.
The gaslighting was awful! I hope the ladies rally behind T and the guys cut ties with G
I really hope at the reunion they show that scene and that all of those ladies apologize to quad for not believing her and implying she was the issue in the marriage. It was him all along which is why she couldn’t commit to having a child with him likely. Then that moron goes and cheats on her. No wonder she ended the marriage at that point finally. There was literally nothing for her to fight to save.
It was absolutely disgusting. He’s a little man with deep insecurities and control issues. Any man that thinks like this does. To think he a psychiatrist (psychologist) as well.
I haven’t watched the episode yet, but based on the comments, watching him on this season and when he was married to Quad, he is 100% abusive, at least verbally. It seems as if he wants to always be the smartest in the room.
I remember when G and Quad had friends over and he started in on quad. He ended up faking a seizure on the floor with spit and foam in the corner of his mouth. I knew right then that he was totally psycho and can’t believe that he treats psychiatric patients. He’s unqualified and unhinged. I haven’t been able to even look at him since that episode.
As I watched and he kept shutting her down and telling her it was her fault, all I could say was he’s gaslighting her to make her doubt her actions and tear her down. A true narcissist! This scene completely validated all of Quad’s past claims. This is not okay! This man needs to go! Run Tea, run! You are a pawn to him and the sooner you get out the better.
have always got super controlling vibes from him.